Happy Mothers Day!!
I was treated to a lovely breakfast – made especially for me by the two wee princesses – as well as a morning of lounging on the sofa and clearing out the DVR. Relaxation… ahh! The afternoon will be a little more active – well, at least we have to leave the house. Alek has a lead role in the HJHS production of Willy Wonka, Jr, so we’re going to head over to watch and embarass him during curtain call.
Several months ago, his English teacher called to get permission for him to audition. Because he hadn’t mentionned anything about it, I worried that he was just flinging excuses her way to get out of it. Stuck on the phone needing to give an answer while he was at school, I couldn’t check with him. Crossing my fingers, I deflected back to him. “If he wants to and is sure he can manage his dance and school schedules, we can make it work.” As it turned out, he wanted to do the show, but didn’t ask because he thought there was no way to fit it all in. So… good mama. I hear he’s an amazing Candy Man. I can’t wait to see the performance.
I could hear whispering and giggling coming from the kitchen as the girls worked together to make eggs, toast, sausage, and tea and solve the problems of the universe [or at least of the little girls in the neighborhood]. Breakfast was served with a vase of flowers and a steamy cup of Earl Gray with bergamot. Cards and homemade pictures = the best!
All of this means I’m doing something right. That’s not always as evident as it is today, but I did have some really great role models. My own mother was just short of an angel and her mother was a saint. I’m sure that’s not entirely true; everyone has their faults, but I don’t have to focus on that if I don’t want to. And I don’t. In addition to Mother and Grandma Rounds, I had lovely aunts, cousins, and sisters who have taught [and continue to teach] me a lot. I am thankful for them daily. Aunt Lois, Aunt Margie, Judie, Bindy, Penny, and Aimee: Thank you.
Like most women who grew up in an age when the television was as much a member of the family as the humans, I learned from mothers who weren’t my own. On my personal FB page and on our fan page, I asked friends to tell me who is their favorite TV mom.
Roseanne was the clear favorite [she makes my list too], with me coming in second [although I insist I don’t count since I’m a REAL person]. Tied for third were Peg Bundy and Claire Huxtable. Michelle Duggar [also a real person, so…], Elise Keaton, Kitty Forman, and Sophia Petrillo also pulled in multiple votes. Everyone else on the list drew a single vote.
The usual suspects appeared: June Cleaver, Caroline Ingalls, Carol Brady, and Marian Cunningham; yet, no love for Shirley Partridge.
The not-so-expected appeared: Morticia Addams, Edith Bunker, Olivia Walton, Ann Romano, and Florida Evans.
The modern appeared: Judy Miller, Jill Taylor, Debra Barone, Lorelai Gilmore, and Meredith [Castle]. Honestly, I had to Google most of them.
My personal Top 5 is uniquely me.
Lorelei Gilmore//Gilmore Girls:
Love her relationship with her daughter. Love her style. Love her wit. Not only is she a great mama, she’d be a great bestie too.
Roseanne Connor//Roseanne:
I’m sure she made her kids CRAZY – heck I’m glad she’s not my mom [or my mother-in-law], but as far as doing and saying the right thing she had it. Plus, Dan Connor = best TV husband EVER.
Lynette Scavo//Desperate Housewives: Love that attitude. She’s always got it under control – even when she doubts herself. She’s not afraid to show her vulnerability, but has amazing power to pick herself up.
Claudia Finnerty//Grounded for Life: Surprise after surprise and she’s still going. Those kids are difficult; her husband needs a babysitter. She holds that family together and does it with style and sass.
Cindy Walsh//Beverly Hills 90210: Umm… does this really need an explanation? Perfect. Just perfect.
I see these women as parts of the puzzle designing the the kind of mom I want to be. Someday, I may get there. Probably not. Being a good parent is a work in progress – my expectations keep changing. Because they should.
Tags: gifts, mothers day, theatre, willy wonka
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